White Family Reunion 2026 · Upper Montclair, New Jersey
Reconnect · Celebrate · Remember
The Gathering
Join Roberta and Luis at their home in Upper Montclair — just 12 miles west of New York City — for a day of food, laughter, lawn games, and memories.
410 Grove Street, Upper Montclair, NJ. A big front porch, backyard patio, and a grill — the perfect backdrop for a summer reunion. Rain or shine.
Please arrive anytime after 10 AM. Food and drinks will be flowing all day. Count on burgers and dogs on the grill as well as fish, vegan burgers and grilled veggies. We will have all the classic salads and sides with a variey of pies for dessert. Let's aim for Family Circle at 1 PM !
We suggest a contribution of $25 per person to help offset costs.
Horseshoes and bocce on the front lawn. Bring your competitive spirit — or just pull up a lawn chair.
Easy access from Newark Airport and Newark Penn Station (Amtrak). We're happy to help arrange pickups. Parking available on-site and nearby.
Optional before and after events are being planned Check the Events section in a few days to see the options and let us know your interest!
The FIFA World Cup begins June 13 at nearby MetLife Stadium. Book lodging early — prices and availability will tighten significantly as that date approaches.
Reserve Your Place
Add everyone in your group — we collect each person's name individually so the whole family can see who's coming. One form per submission.
Attendance
Who's coming
Questions? Email us at rglaser2@gmail.com
Where to Stay
We've researched the best nearby hotels across a range of budgets, with June 6 prices. Honestly, World Cup proximity is pushing rates up — the Best Western in Fairfield at $140 is a genuine standout. All recommended hotels have a 7 of 10 rating or higher on Booking.com. Book soon! Click on the icons on the lodging map below to see details, including distance from our home and reservation links on Booking.com
In Montclair & West Orange — Closest to the Reunion
Fairfield & Wayne — Good Value, ~7–11 Miles
Paramus & Kenilworth — Further Out, Strong Value
Parsippany, Whippany & Morris Plains — Extended-Stay & Full-Service, ~20–25 Miles
Newark Airport — For Fly-In Guests, ~15 Miles
All prices are estimates for June 6, 2026 and will vary. The Parsippany/Whippany/Morris Plains cluster is notably more affordable because it is further from MetLife Stadium — a good option if you don't mind the extra drive.
Airbnb & VRBO: There are short-term rental options in and around Montclair, though prices on June 6 are elevated due to the World Cup. We're happy to help individual cousins search for the right fit — just reach out to us directly at rglaser2@gmail.com.
Lodging Map
All hotels plotted relative to 410 Grove St. Click any pin for details.
Explore
We're building out two curated maps — local Montclair favorites and the family heritage sites in Paterson where Irma's story began. Both are works in progress and will grow over the coming weeks.
Our favorite local spots — restaurants, gardens, museums, and things to do. More pins being added weekly.
Key family-related sites in Paterson, NJ — Irma's birthplace and the community that shaped our family. Walking tour details coming soon.
Weekend Schedule
We've planned optional gatherings around the main reunion — each one scales easily from one person to twenty. No commitment required. Just let us know if you're interested.
For those interested, a relaxed, low-key visit to historic Paterson — where our grandmother Irma White was born, and where earlier generations of our family lived and worked. Paterson was shaped by Alexander Hamilton, who recognized the power of the Great Falls and helped establish it as one of America's first planned industrial cities. The water powered a network of mills — and members of our family were part of that story.
The main event! 410 Grove Street, Upper Montclair. 10:00 AM onwards. Food, drinks, lawn games, music, and family. This is the one — don't miss it.
Join us for a breakfast picnic at Hamilton Park in Weehawken, NJ — one of the finest views of the Manhattan skyline anywhere in the region: wide, open, and unobstructed. This stretch of the Hudson River has its own connection to our family. Hendrick Kuyper — later known as Henry Cooper — served as a scout along this very corridor during the Revolutionary War.
For those who would like to, a quiet, optional visit to the cemetery where our grandparents Henry and Irma White are laid to rest. They are buried at the First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains. No formal program — just time to gather at the family plot, pause, and reflect.
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Family Archive
"Who tells your story? We do."
A living record of who we are and where we came from. These stories connect our family to two of the places we'll visit this reunion weekend.
In the early years of the United States, Alexander Hamilton was thinking beyond independence. He believed the country needed to build its own economy — not just rely on agriculture, but develop manufacturing. When he visited the Great Falls of the Passaic River in northern New Jersey, he saw something practical: a powerful, reliable source of energy.
That idea led to the founding of Paterson — one of the country's first planned industrial cities. Water from the falls was redirected into a system of raceways, which powered mills throughout the city. It was an early example of using natural resources in a structured, almost engineered way to support industry. In that sense, Paterson wasn't just a city — it was an innovation.
Several decades later, members of our family became part of that system. Sarah Cooper Terhune — our grandmother Irma White's grandmother — worked as a cotton mill operator in Paterson until her marriage in 1862. At that time, working in a mill meant long hours and physically demanding conditions. It also meant participating directly in one of the country's earliest industrial economies.
We believe Sarah likely worked at the Phoenix Cotton Mill, one of only two cotton mills operating in Paterson around 1850 and located near her home. While we can't confirm this with certainty, the timing and location make it a reasonable connection.
Sarah was not the only one in her family to work in the mills. Her younger sisters continued working after Sarah left, and they were employed in silk mills, which became a major part of Paterson's economy later in the 19th century. In fact, Paterson would go on to be known as "Silk City" because of this industry. So within one generation, our family was connected to both the earlier cotton mills and the later silk industry that defined the city.
Hendrick Kuyper, our 5th great grandfather — later known as Henry Cooper — was born on May 20, 1761, in Clarkstown, in what is now Rockland County, New York. In 1778, at age 17, he enlisted in the New York militia in New City, NY.
During the Revolutionary War, Hendrick served primarily as a scout. His work took him along the Hudson River corridor between Stony Point, New York and Paulus Hook in New Jersey. This area was strategically important, with both British and American forces operating nearby.
Scouting involved observing troop movements, tracking activity, and carrying information. It required mobility and familiarity with the terrain more than formal battlefield formation.
Part of Hendrick's route included the cliffs along the Hudson River in Weehawken, New Jersey. That location is now Hamilton Park. It later became known as the site where Alexander Hamilton was fatally wounded in a duel with Aaron Burr in 1804.
Although most of his service was in scouting, Hendrick also took part in at least one significant military action. In July 1779, American forces carried out a nighttime attack on British fortifications at the Battle of Stony Point. Hendrick was present for that engagement. We'll share more about that story separately.
Do you have a family story, memory, or photo to share? We'd love to feature it here. Email us at rglaser2@gmail.com and we'll add it to the site.
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