White Family Reunion 2026  ·  Upper Montclair, New Jersey

Descendants of Henry & Irma

Reconnect  ·  Celebrate  ·  Remember

Date Saturday, June 6
Time 10:00 AM
Location Montclair, NJ

What to Expect

Join Roberta and Luis at their home in Upper Montclair — just 12 miles west of New York City — for a day of food, laughter, lawn games, and memories.

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The Setting

410 Grove Street, Upper Montclair, NJ. A big front porch, backyard patio, and a grill — the perfect backdrop for a summer reunion. Rain or shine.

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Food & Drink

Please arrive anytime after 10 AM. Food and drinks will be flowing all day. Count on burgers and dogs on the grill as well as fish, vegan burgers and grilled veggies. We will have all the classic salads and sides with a variey of pies for dessert. Let's aim for Family Circle at 1 PM !

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Suggested Contribution

We suggest a contribution of $25 per person to help offset costs.

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Lawn Games

Horseshoes and bocce on the front lawn. Bring your competitive spirit — or just pull up a lawn chair.

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Getting Here

Easy access from Newark Airport and Newark Penn Station (Amtrak). We're happy to help arrange pickups. Parking available on-site and nearby.

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The Weekend

Optional before and after events are being planned Check the Events section in a few days to see the options and let us know your interest!

World Cup Note

The FIFA World Cup begins June 13 at nearby MetLife Stadium. Book lodging early — prices and availability will tighten significantly as that date approaches.

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Questions? Email us at rglaser2@gmail.com

Lodging Options

We've researched the best nearby hotels across a range of budgets, with June 6 prices. Honestly, World Cup proximity is pushing rates up — the Best Western in Fairfield at $140 is a genuine standout. All recommended hotels have a 7 of 10 rating or higher on Booking.com. Book soon! Click on the icons on the lodging map below to see details, including distance from our home and reservation links on Booking.com

In Montclair & West Orange — Closest to the Reunion

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The George — Montclair 0.7 mi
Boutique inn · Free breakfast · Wine hour · Candy closet · Walk to downtown
$400–500
per night
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The MC Hotel, Autograph Collection — Montclair 0.8 mi
Marriott 4-star · Rooftop bar with NYC views · Restaurant · Bonvoy points
~$450
per night
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Residence Inn by Marriott — West Orange 2.5 mi
All-suite · Full kitchens · Free breakfast · Saltwater pool · Free parking
~$400
per night
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The Wilshire Grand Hotel — West Orange 3 mi
3-star · Free breakfast · Italian restaurant · Free parking · Pet friendly
~$240
per night

Fairfield & Wayne — Good Value, ~7–11 Miles

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Hampton Inn & Suites — Fairfield 7 mi
4.5★ rated · Free breakfast · Calandra's Italian restaurant · Free parking
~$410
per night
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Best Western Plus Fairfield Exec Inn 7 mi Best Value
Free omelet breakfast · Indoor pool & Jacuzzi · Calandra's restaurant · Free parking
~$140
per night
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Red Roof Inn — Fairfield 7 mi
Budget option · Renovated 2021 · Fitness center · Italian restaurant on-site · Free parking · Pet friendly (1st pet free)
~$105–160
per night
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Hilton Garden Inn — Wayne 11 mi
#1 rated in Wayne · Newly renovated · Indoor pool & hot tub · On-site restaurant · Free parking
~$232
per night

Paramus & Kenilworth — Further Out, Strong Value

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Comfort Inn Paramus — Hackensack ~14 mi
Free breakfast buffet · Free parking · Near Garden State Plaza Mall · Good highway access
~$120–160
per night
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The Kenilworth Hotel — Airport West ~16 mi
Boutique hotel · Free breakfast · Free airport shuttle to Newark · Free parking · Rated #1 in Kenilworth
~$110–150
per night

Parsippany, Whippany & Morris Plains — Extended-Stay & Full-Service, ~20–25 Miles

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Hyatt House Parsippany East ~22 mi
Kitchenettes · Free breakfast buffet · Outdoor pool · Bar · Hyatt points accepted
~$109–130
per night
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Sheraton Parsippany Hotel ~22 mi
Castle-themed 4-star · 370 rooms · Indoor & outdoor pools · Spa · Full-service health club · Bonvoy points
~$120–145
per night
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Embassy Suites — Parsippany ~22 mi
All-suite · Lush atrium · Free breakfast & evening reception · Indoor pool · Hilton Honors points
~$97–140
per night
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Sonesta Select Whippany Hanover ~23 mi
149 rooms · Garden & firepit · On-site bar & breakfast · Fitness center · Free parking
~$100–140
per night
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Sonesta Simply Suites — Morris Plains ~24 mi
Extended-stay suites · Full kitchens · Fitness center · Free parking · Very budget-friendly
~$80–110
per night

Newark Airport — For Fly-In Guests, ~15 Miles

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Holiday Inn Newark International Airport ~15 mi
Free 24-hr airport shuttle · On-site restaurant & lounge · Good for late arrivals & early departures
~$62–120
per night
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Comfort Inn & Suites Newark Liberty Airport ~15 mi
Airport shuttle · Budget-friendly · Good for fly-in guests needing simple, convenient accommodation
~$74–120
per night

All prices are estimates for June 6, 2026 and will vary. The Parsippany/Whippany/Morris Plains cluster is notably more affordable because it is further from MetLife Stadium — a good option if you don't mind the extra drive.

Airbnb & VRBO: There are short-term rental options in and around Montclair, though prices on June 6 are elevated due to the World Cup. We're happy to help individual cousins search for the right fit — just reach out to us directly at rglaser2@gmail.com.

Lodging Map

All hotels plotted relative to 410 Grove St. Click any pin for details.

The Area & Our Heritage

We're building out two curated maps — local Montclair favorites and the family heritage sites in Paterson where Irma's story began. Both are works in progress and will grow over the coming weeks.

Local Guide

Montclair Restaurants & Sites

Our favorite local spots — restaurants, gardens, museums, and things to do. More pins being added weekly.

Family Heritage

Irma's Paterson

Key family-related sites in Paterson, NJ — Irma's birthplace and the community that shaped our family. Walking tour details coming soon.

Before & After

We've planned optional gatherings around the main reunion — each one scales easily from one person to twenty. No commitment required. Just let us know if you're interested.

5June · Fri
15 min from Montclair

Paterson: From the Falls to the Mills

For those interested, a relaxed, low-key visit to historic Paterson — where our grandmother Irma White was born, and where earlier generations of our family lived and worked. Paterson was shaped by Alexander Hamilton, who recognized the power of the Great Falls and helped establish it as one of America's first planned industrial cities. The water powered a network of mills — and members of our family were part of that story.

  • We'll meet at the Paterson Museum at 12:00 PM — a small but fascinating museum capturing the city's industrial history
  • Box lunches will be available so we can eat together casually
  • A short 5-minute walk brings us to Great Falls National Historical Park — one of the largest waterfalls on the East Coast
  • For those who'd like to continue, an optional walk to the site of the Phoenix Mills, where we believe Sarah Cooper Terhune — Irma's grandmother — may have worked as a cotton mill operator around 1860
Read the story behind this event: Silk City & Sarah Cooper Terhune →
6June · Sat

The White Family Reunion ★

The main event! 410 Grove Street, Upper Montclair. 10:00 AM onwards. Food, drinks, lawn games, music, and family. This is the one — don't miss it.

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7June · Sun
20 min from Montclair

Hamilton Park & the Hudson — Morning

Join us for a breakfast picnic at Hamilton Park in Weehawken, NJ — one of the finest views of the Manhattan skyline anywhere in the region: wide, open, and unobstructed. This stretch of the Hudson River has its own connection to our family. Hendrick Kuyper — later known as Henry Cooper — served as a scout along this very corridor during the Revolutionary War.

  • Picnic-style breakfast starting at 9:00 AM
  • Time to relax, take in the view, and be together
  • For those who'd like to continue, a short drive to the Weehawken Ferry Terminal for a round-trip ride to Manhattan
Read the story behind this event: A Scout Along the Hudson →
7June · Sun
25 min from Montclair

A Visit to Henry and Irma — Afternoon

For those who would like to, a quiet, optional visit to the cemetery where our grandparents Henry and Irma White are laid to rest. They are buried at the First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains. No formal program — just time to gather at the family plot, pause, and reflect.

  • Simple, informal visit
  • For those interested, we can coordinate a small group contribution toward refreshing the family plot

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Stories & Memories

"Who tells your story? We do."

A living record of who we are and where we came from. These stories connect our family to two of the places we'll visit this reunion weekend.

← Connected to: Paterson: From the Falls to the Mills

Silk City & Sarah Cooper Terhune

In the early years of the United States, Alexander Hamilton was thinking beyond independence. He believed the country needed to build its own economy — not just rely on agriculture, but develop manufacturing. When he visited the Great Falls of the Passaic River in northern New Jersey, he saw something practical: a powerful, reliable source of energy.

That idea led to the founding of Paterson — one of the country's first planned industrial cities. Water from the falls was redirected into a system of raceways, which powered mills throughout the city. It was an early example of using natural resources in a structured, almost engineered way to support industry. In that sense, Paterson wasn't just a city — it was an innovation.

Where Our Family Connects

Several decades later, members of our family became part of that system. Sarah Cooper Terhune — our grandmother Irma White's grandmother — worked as a cotton mill operator in Paterson until her marriage in 1862. At that time, working in a mill meant long hours and physically demanding conditions. It also meant participating directly in one of the country's earliest industrial economies.

We believe Sarah likely worked at the Phoenix Cotton Mill, one of only two cotton mills operating in Paterson around 1850 and located near her home. While we can't confirm this with certainty, the timing and location make it a reasonable connection.

A Family Pattern of Work

Sarah was not the only one in her family to work in the mills. Her younger sisters continued working after Sarah left, and they were employed in silk mills, which became a major part of Paterson's economy later in the 19th century. In fact, Paterson would go on to be known as "Silk City" because of this industry. So within one generation, our family was connected to both the earlier cotton mills and the later silk industry that defined the city.

← Connected to: Hamilton Park & the Hudson

A Scout Along the Hudson

Hendrick Kuyper, our 5th great grandfather — later known as Henry Cooper — was born on May 20, 1761, in Clarkstown, in what is now Rockland County, New York. In 1778, at age 17, he enlisted in the New York militia in New City, NY.

Service Along the Hudson

During the Revolutionary War, Hendrick served primarily as a scout. His work took him along the Hudson River corridor between Stony Point, New York and Paulus Hook in New Jersey. This area was strategically important, with both British and American forces operating nearby.

Scouting involved observing troop movements, tracking activity, and carrying information. It required mobility and familiarity with the terrain more than formal battlefield formation.

A Place We Can Still Visit

Part of Hendrick's route included the cliffs along the Hudson River in Weehawken, New Jersey. That location is now Hamilton Park. It later became known as the site where Alexander Hamilton was fatally wounded in a duel with Aaron Burr in 1804.

Connected to a Larger Event

Although most of his service was in scouting, Hendrick also took part in at least one significant military action. In July 1779, American forces carried out a nighttime attack on British fortifications at the Battle of Stony Point. Hendrick was present for that engagement. We'll share more about that story separately.

Do you have a family story, memory, or photo to share? We'd love to feature it here. Email us at rglaser2@gmail.com and we'll add it to the site.

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